Here we are gathering some resources to make that flight just that much easier for you and your gang. We also have recommended places we have gone. Check it out and add to it (please!)

SkyCaps

Help all the way through to check in and help on arrival. These guys really saved me when I was travelling with 2 under 2. Met me as I deplaned with two sleeping kids and helped all the way through immigration. Unreal.
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Bulkhead

"When flying with kids, particularly babies, make sure to request bulkhead seat. If the baby is small enough, they'll give you a bassinet too. So nice to have the extra room." Thanks Linsday!"

Just travelled on BA to NY and they have a car seat like device that fits where the pulldown cot sits if your child is too big for a cot. Saves you holding a heavy toddler on your lap for 6 hours (that's if you haven't bought a seat for them!)" Thanks Justine

Car Services

Simply Airport Good Car Service with Car Seats -Lisa
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Addison Lee Recommended Car Service -Lindsay
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